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你獨自在戀愛中嗎?
愛情是辛苦的 (愛情是需要努力的)
想想吧﹐你到底為了失去一個愛人而傷心過幾回﹐曾經在多次尋找那個他/她時候感覺到失敗,而發誓絕對不再談戀愛了
難怪你已經準備大聲喊出 我對愛情完全放棄! 只要給我一個可以結婚的對象就好了!
婚姻代表了結束這讓人疲憊的重複﹐把在周六夜晚的晚餐對換成懶懶地與終身伴侶躺在電視前﹐絕對不計較你的髒亂的臉與油膩的頭髮。或許愛情在安逸之後會來到
但是﹐SBS黃金檔電視劇 戀愛時代 告訴你。結婚不是最佳的解決方法。 作為愛情的延續﹐你沒有克服愛情這階段是無法去掌握你的婚姻
每個周一﹐二晚上﹐吸引著許多年輕男女觀看的電視劇﹐成功真實地帶出了愛情與婚姻的問題。曾經幸福的夫婦Dong-jin (甘宇成飾演)與Eun-ho(孫藝珍飾演)在電視劇中在離婚之後才開始了艱苦的愛情道路
在失去了一個期待已久的孩子﹐倆人卻沒有一起治療傷痛﹐而選擇了在彼此沒有看到最醜陋的對方之前﹐先分離
但是在離婚的一年半之後﹐兩人在最喜歡的麵包店見面﹐象對結婚夫婦般為了芝麻綠荳的小事情爭吵。 在結婚紀念日的時候。用了曾經結婚的酒店給的餐券﹐一起吃飯
當在疑惑著這藕斷絲連的感情是不是愛的時候﹐ Dong-jin and Eun-ho 卻害怕重新開始。甚至更害怕完全結束彼此之間的關係
當兩人都沒有勇氣去面對彼此之間在恩湖失去孩子的那天的誤會。他們只可以停留﹐無法向前。他們雖然已經結過婚﹐但是在解決問題上與其他情侶一樣。因為失敗過﹐愛變成了恐懼
恩湖常自己想著﹐ 愛情什麼時候﹐在什麼地方開始﹐ 是不是永恆的愛還是牽掛。如果因為那臉孔而失眠﹐那是不是愛 。如果一個的心在很久之後還是痛著﹐那是愛嗎
"戀愛時代"不是個有粉紅色氣球飛出車廂的輕鬆甜蜜的愛情故事﹐也不是嚴肅探討著愛情與婚姻的分析。通過主角各自的獨白與寫實的刻劃了人生﹐這電視劇把主角放在了已婚與未婚之間的脆弱縫隙中
讓兩位主人翁在以不同的看法來對待愛情與婚姻﹐這電視劇變成了觀眾自己的故事﹐甚至那些未曾結婚﹐離婚或為愛情傷痛過的人的故事
Han Ji-seung,導演曾經在2001年的大鐘獎上以電影 一天 獲得最佳導演獎 而編劇Park Yun-sun,曾經編寫過My Tutor Friend (2003)。 這電視劇證明了好的劇本與讓人信服的敘述方式是一部好電視劇的兩個最重要的條件
演員甘宇成與孫藝珍-目前演藝圈裡最搶手的兩人﹐也展現了兩人已經在電影 王的男人 與 外出 中受肯定的最佳演技﹐
對恩湖來說 愛情實在太痛苦了
愛情是讓人痛苦的。在開始的時候﹐希望會讓人受傷。之後。想了解他的一受傷痛苦﹐當愛情結束的時候﹐因為兩個人的愛情沒有在同一時刻結束而痛苦。 她對自己說 沒有傷心也沒有開心。我沒有生氣也沒有開心。但當我輕輕嘆氣的時候﹐那肋骨之間的縫隙有刺入的寒意
而Dong-jin卻選擇了向前走
對他來說﹐解開恩湖對那天失去孩子時候的誤會﹐那他陪著死去孩子的那天。是毫無意義的。只會加深彼此的傷口
在遇見了新對象的時候﹐他嘗試為自己的新戀情解說。我什麼時候開始停止了談著我未來的希望。成長代表著失去了希望並發覺其實明天與今天沒有不一樣 所以成年人才談戀愛。愛情就象是純真的希望讓人以跳動的心期待著不一樣的明天
看著他們的遲疑與反復不定﹐很多觀眾開始煩躁地想為何兩個人都不可以坦白點。 但是或許這些煩躁的情緒其實是針對自己
對那些困惑著的男人與女人。戀愛時代給了一個寶貴的建議。遲疑﹐後悔﹐跌倒﹐崩潰還有其它的一切﹐不管什麼都得去做。雖然你可以獨自在愛情中﹐但是婚姻是需要兩個人的。
以上由 ST 翻譯自 http://www.koreaherald.co.kr/SIT ... 24/200605240016.asp
英文原報道
Are you 'Alone in Love'?
Love is laborious.
Think about it. Just how many times did you ache over the loss of a loved one, feel defeated after numerous searches for the "right person" and vow never to fall in love again?
No wonder you are ready to cry out, "I give up on love! Just give me someone to marry." Here, marriage means gladly putting an end to this exhausting repetition, and swapping a posh Saturday night dinner for a laze in front of the television with a lifelong partner who won't care about your messy face and greasy hair. Perhaps love can come after the comfort.
However, SBS primetime drama "Alone in Love (Yeonaesidae)" tells you that marriage isn't the almighty solution. As a mere extension of love, one cannot handle marriage without first overcoming the cruel yet crucial steps of love.
Gam Woo-sung (left) and Son Ye-jin in "Alone in Love"
Drawing many young men and women to the TV screens every Monday and Tuesday nights, the drama ended yesterday, successfully bringing up realistic issues on love and marriage. The once-happily-married couple Dong-jin (Gam Woo-sung) and Eun-ho (Son Ye-jin) in the drama start the tiring process of love after divorce.
After losing a much expected baby, the couple fails to heal the wound together, choosing instead to separate before "they see the worst of each other."
But even a year and a half after their divorce, the two meet up in their favorite bakery for breakfasts, quarrel over trivial things like a married couple and eat dinner on their wedding anniversary with a free meal coupon provided by the hotel where they got married.
While wondering whether the lingering feelings are love, Dong-jin and Eun-ho are both too afraid to start over - and more afraid to end the relationship completely.
With neither brave enough to confront each other about the misunderstanding on the day Eun-ho had a stillborn baby, they are unable to move on. Although they had gone through marriage, they are no better in solving the problem than other lovers. Having "failed" once, love turns into fear.
Eun-ho constantly wonders to herself, "Where and when does love begin? Are they feelings of worry and longing love? If one loses sleep over the lingering face, is that love? If one's heart keeps on aching after a long time, was that love?"
"Alone in Love" was neither a light and sugary love story with pink balloons flying out of car trunks, nor a macroscopic analysis on the issue of love and marriage. Through dry monologues of the two main characters and realistic depictions of life, the drama placed the main characters in the vulnerable gap between the married and the unmarried.
As the two main characters approached love and marriage from separate views, the drama turned into viewers' own stories, even for those who had never married, divorced or ached over love before.
Directed by Han Ji-seung, who won the best director award at the 2001 Daejong Film Festival for the movie "Haru," and written by Park Yun-sun, who wrote the scenario for "My Tutor Friend (2003)," the drama proved that a solid plot and convincing narrative were the two most important conditions of a good drama.
Actor Gam and actress Son - currently the two most-wanted people in the local entertainment scene - also showed off the best of their acting skills already proven through several movies including "King and the Clown" and "April Snow," respectively.
For Eun-ho, love becomes simply too painful.
"Love hurts. At the beginning the hope hurts. After a while, the desire to know everything about him hurts, and when it ends, it hurts because love doesn't end at the same moment for the two people," she says to herself. "Nothing is sad or funny. I am neither angry nor happy. But when an unexpected sigh passes through my body, the small gap between the ribs aches with a penetrating chill."
Dong-jin, on the other hand, strives to move on.
For him, unraveling Eun-ho's misunderstanding about the day when she had a stillborn child - which he spent next to the dead baby - is meaningless as it will only deepen their wounds.
After meeting someone new, Dong-jin tries to justify his new romance by saying to himself, "Since when did I stop talking about my future hope? Growing up means losing hope and realizing that tomorrow won't be different from today. This is why grown ups love. Romance is like a naive hope that makes them wait for a different tomorrow with a fluttering heart."
Watching Dong-jin and Eun-ho hesitate and vacillate, many viewers wondered with frustration why the two main characters couldn't be more frank about their feelings. None the less, perhaps the frustration had been pointed toward themselves.
For many of those confused men and women out there, "Alone in Love" gave a valuable piece of advice. Hesitate, regret, stumble, collapse and do whatever else it takes. But although you can be "alone in love," only two can take it up to marriage.
(hayney@heraldm.com)
By Shin Hae-in
2006.05.24 |
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发表于 2006-5-23 23:47
大家可以期待一下~~~
