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原帖由 vicky 于 2007-5-14 23:26 发表
只是好久沒看了
回國３年了
所以退步了
你寫英文我剛好複習一下
只是你的問題
真的很難回答
唉
我也不知那些過去能不能恢復
可是站在觀眾的立場
恩秀做了選擇
．．．．
那我們就祝福他會有好結果阿
At some point during this drama, I really felt that maybe...just maybe....this marriage and engagement could work.
I wanted so badly for them to be happy...as an outsider looking at their story. I could tell easily who is making mistakes, who is making the right choice..but I can't make those choices for them. Isn't it always easier to tell people what is wrong and what is right? When you have to go through the process yourself, it is many times harder to know what you are doing right/wrong.
It is hard though to be convinced that anybody should marry somebody they do not love. That is where Eun Soo and Joon Hyuk made a huge mistake. Eun Soo knew she does not love Joon Hyuk but in her pain and anger towards Tae Joo, she married Joon Hyuk anyways. That was very very selfish of her. That is very unfair to Joon Hyuk because he is in such a fragile mindstate, needing somebody to "hold him and love him" but she wasn't going to do that...ever.
That's why I don't buy it that the writer needs to make this couple stay together...That is completely nonsensical for them to stay together because their vows of marriage wasn't based on love. It was selfishness of Eun Soo....She does not deserve a man like Joon Hyuk and Joon Hyuk deserves much better love and marriage.
Dramas don't mean to teach lessons about life. But...if anything should come out of this..Do not marry somebody you do not love. Marriage should always be a two-way commitment. You can't just marry to try out "love"..and then expect your wife/husband to love you after marriage. Nobody changes just because of a piece of marriage certificate, certainly not the heart. |
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发表于 2007-5-14 23:26
