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這位韓飯的觀後感冩得很好:
http://forums.soompi.com/discuss ... %98%81%EC%9D%B4/p11
the bride looks like she's marching into a funeral. selling her soul to the enemy which is her pride.
i get her reasoning. she never imagined she would actually end up marrying WJ so she did not want to talk about her father, that he works as a hallmanager at an adult nightclub infront of the whole family because that is her last dignity and pride. she is already judged and disregarded for being poor but to be humiliated for something she has no control she would not consent to.
新娘看起來像是走進一場葬禮
她把她的靈魂賣给了敵人
而那個敵人就是她的自尊
我能體會她的想法
她之前從没想過她最後真的能嫁給宇才
所以她不想在宇才全家人面前談她那個在成人俱樂部當大廳經理的爸爸
因為這是她最後的尊嚴和自尊
她已經因為貧窮被評頭論足、被看輕
她不想再為她無法掌控的事被羞辱
even if she were to come clean to WJ about her father, in her mind, the only consequence she would consent to is to give up on WJ. even if WJ and his family were to embrace her regardlessly, in her mind, she would not allow herself to. you can see she is so scarred and so ground to the bone from the hurt she's experienced and now Woojae comes and makes her laugh and really the first man to ever take care of her so the woman in her and the young girl in her wants to lean on the tall dark and handsome no matter what the cost. she told SW she would leave WJ before she would come clean. regardless of how WJ would react, she's already made up her mind that the action of coming clean leads to losing WJ because she would not consent to an otherwise.
即使她要對宇才自白爸爸的事
在她認為這樣做的唯一结果就是要放棄宇才
即使宇才和他家人不跟她計較要包容她
她心裏也不會讓她自己這麼做
你能看到她所經歷的事給她留下了多少傷痕 讓她受到了多刺骨的痛
而現在宇才來了
讓她開心微笑
而且真的是第一個照顾過她的男人
所以她心裏的女人情懷那個年輕女孩想要依靠着這個高大黝黑的英俊男人
不管付出多少代價
她告诉弟弟尚宇
她會在對宇才自白前離開宇才
不管宇才如何反應
她已經决定
自白的结果就是失去宇才
没有别的结果
ps.後面這些話,其實是第10集裏瑞英對弟弟說的話
所以瑞英後來選擇不把真相說出,已經無關說不說谎
而是瑞英衡量一切後最後做出的结論与决定
她想要有尊嚴的、擺脱爸爸給她的傷害和陰影
在宇才的愛裏
在夫家有自尊的活下去
弟弟要求她說出真相
她的回答就是
要嘛放棄(失去)宇才
要嘛就是绝不說出來
[ 本帖最后由 laura1997 于 2012-10-16 15:32 编辑 ] |
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